Moving away from Mangalore

Today is my last day in Mangalore.

Arrival: 5.00 AM on November 1st 2006. The night was still set and the chill was giving us a cold welcome. We reached the Hotel at around 5.20 AM and I was wide awake expecting a totally crazy city welcome :).

Almost 4 years have passed now. Mangalore is one of those cities which I'd like to call as my Home.
The evergreen city with the crazy sob* bus drivers and the calming beaches and what not. The food here is nothing short of AWESOME, just a bit sweet sometimes :).

The road trips, the malls, the pubs, the nightlife (not that great but still good), the multiplex and the this list can go forever.

I made one of my best set of friends in Mangalore. I'm not close to tears, but I dunno when my emotional cap is gonna run all over me.

I'll miss this place till I come back here. The place where I bought my first car, the first drop of Alcohol, the best seafood, the first night show in the multiplex, the first big bang birthday party and so many other parties.

I'll say it again, I'll miss this place till I come back here :):).

Leaving the city at 4.00 PM Sept 24th 2010 with a heavy heart looking forward to my future.

Departure: Warm afternoon at 4.00 PM, with my best friends sending me off :'):'). I think I hit my emotional cap here.

And So it Begins!!!!!

I was just a bit a cross with myself for getting up so early, 4 AM is pushing it a bit too far for a Sunday if you ask me. I tweeted about it, made me feel good and then I realized I was not in any sort of groggy nature, I was wide awake, eyes peeled!!!!.

Watched a movie right in the morning, there was a bit of drizzle in Mangalore in the early hours of the day, the Sun was still down and my day looked better and better.

I finally realized that I didn’t wake up because I slept early, it was just pure instinct. I woke up at 4 AM, for I want to enjoy the whole day. Today is my last Sunday in Mangalore (for the time being, wrt the direct future)

My last Sunday begins!!!!!

Not a late realization

I have been such a jerk for the past 8 years...i realized it...big time jerk thats what you can call me...8 long years have passed...i have gone thru tonnes of bad experiences...in fact i've been the biggest idiot of all times...

I won't say that i have wasted all these 8 years...i just didn't tap at my right source...my brain wasn't involved in my decisions at all...only my heart...it never works that way...only if the brain is used in harmony with the heart it will be the right decision and i have just realized that...

The best years were spent in the best way, but the future was never planned...never...it was based on spontaneity and that has been a loophole...now i've realized that...i have to make amends and make sure now that i have to involve my brain also into the decision making process...

I have made so many career plans but never with the full support of my brain and heart have I made my way thru the plans...but thank my stars, i have been lucky enuf not to be pushed into a no light pit...i can still see the light and definitely i'll make my way toward it.

I have to aim higher and always plan a year ahead and i'll definitely make everything go in fast motion...my realization will not be in vain...I promise this to myself and i'll crucify myself if i don't follow it...

Sayanora Hyderabad

Bye bye Hyderabad...i'll miss you...my folks moved out of there today...i'm no longer a hyderabadi now...
Sayanora Hyderabad...
Aloha Chennai...:):)

Love - The ultimate SUBJECT

This is my first post so I intend to keep it a bit a lengthy...before I start with what the original title means...a little bit about me...this is not my first attempt at blogs...in fact it is my second attempt after a grand success in my first attempt...

I'm 24 right now and yes 'single' too. I never thought I'll be obsessed with blogging until recently I found that I'm quite like that. Regardless of what people might think, I like to assert my ideas into people's mind when they read my blog...I'll try to narrate things in the best way so that people may play it as a movie in their mind...enuf with all that know me stuff...lets get on with what I wanted to post...

In Indian schools till 10th Standard there are a few compulsory subjects like Maths, Science (Biology, Physics and, Chemistry), English, Hindi and most importantly a science known as Social science or social studies. Till a primary standard it is known as EST - Environmental Studies...We have no choice we have to study all these subjects till class 10th...then we have a choice based on our career options...now coming back to love...throughout history...all kinds of people have tried to classify love and make it as distinct as possible...They have tried and defined love as crisp as possible...but yet people fail to understand the simplicity and openness of love. The latest definition - Love/Loathe is a mixture of emotions felt or experienced by a living thing (all living things), it can be good (love) or bad (loathe). We are only talking about two human beings in love...not motherly, brotherly, sisterly, fatherly...just the normal love.

Simple theory, love is a feeling...but hey feelings are the most complex topics which any head can easily understand...neither man or woman...nobody can ever understand ones feelings...forget about understanding each other...Love may be considered a bit like maths...a higher math actually...it is based on Probability that a person may understand or try to understand the other person's feeling...so the math method is a difficult one comprehend...(i was never good at Probability)...Next the Scientific approach...Love is knowing the biology and physics for a better chemistry...this explanation is simple and straightforward but it is too simple...Next is the best one...

Love is like social science...Love is about history, geography, civics and also economics...Love is about knowledge of History...know about the past relationships (tough one, unless you are easy), family, renaissance, culture and other such historic details. Also, once the relationship clings on...it takes in a good amount of dates...dates as in remembering them...(first date, birthday, anniversary and the likes)...Geography of love...well it is about the physical well being of the person, whether the person has a healthy mind ( or a nutcase), healthy body (guys - muscles and certain assets, girls - a lot of assets), location preferences and others. Civics- very less into play before the relationship is established...but after-wards it takes care of all the rules and regulations of the household...(like who will do the dishes, washing etc)...best for the last...economics...it is the most sensitive entity...economics decides about the stability or the coming stability of any love relationship...it hold them together...leave it be a diamond ring or a well furnished house...well I don't wanna explain more on economics...

Well friends, my explanation can be crass...but Love is nothing but Social Science...before falling into love...check History, look at Geography, plan civics and keep economics in mind...it is a tough world...

Well...these are only my thoughts...take it if you like it...or if you don't like it...try liking it...
End of my first Post - Not as long post as I had imagined...but will do for numero uno...